My Strange Relationship with the Mooniverse

Long time no see. I had hoped to keep my blog updated as I went through my year with the Quaker Voluntary Service (QVS), but work got busier, life took many twists and turns, and I just couldn’t find the time to put out a post. And now I’m at the very end of the year. Whoops. I feel terrible about it, as I imagined blogging to be a powerful spiritual discipline and an engaging way to show off the brilliant work of the QVS. I apologize for those few readers who actually looked forward to my posts.

A somewhat recent picture of the Portland QVS Fellows

A somewhat recent picture of the Portland QVS Fellows

In all honesty, I also didn’t have much to say. I started this year hoping to explore Quakerism for all that it is, and to some degree I was able to do that. I read plenty of books on Quaker theology and practice, I experienced the worship and communities within both the Liberal and Evangelical traditions, and I was able to connect even deeper to the Friends of Jesus Fellowship despite our distance. In many ways, I’ve discovered what Quakerism means to me. But really, that hasn’t been the query I’ve been all too concerned about the past year.

What I have been reflecting on and wrestling with kind of took me by surprise… and I’ve actually been blogging daily, despite my absence on this blog—I’ll get to that bit later.

You see, before I was a Quaker, and before I was speaking in tongues, and waaaay before I had come to have faith in Jesus, I was a Moonie. I was born and raised in the Unification Church; a Second Generation member. This is a topic I’ve always struggled talking about, even with those close to me. Sometimes my zeal against the Unification Church can be a bit overwhelming for those listening, and there have been many times where I have attempted to mold my past in the Moonies to simply be something strange and funny, but most of the time I try avoiding that conversation at all costs.

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Praying at a UC event in Newark, NJ.

For those who know nothing of the Unification Church, it is a cult. Of that I am confident. As somebody who has been critically researching the Unification Church the past six years, and as somebody who was born and raised in the Movement, I am constantly surprised and appalled by the corruption I keep discovering within it. The layers of deception and tragedy really seem unending.

Long story short, the group was founded by Rev. Sun Myung Moon, who claimed to be the second coming of Christ and established a religious, financial, and even political empire for him and his family to live off. He displayed very real signs of being a sociopath and his rule over the Moon Kingdom was absurdly nonsensical and cruel.  I bowed to his picture every morning and believed he was the messiah. He was my messiah.

I have a hard time sharing about this part of my life because it is so foreign to people and often times people’s reactions are disappointing. Perhaps my expectations are too high for how people should react, and perhaps sometimes I make my delivery of this part of my story a bit too light-hearted, but somehow, after being out of the church for the past six years, I still do not how to talk about it.

After reading “In the Shadow of the Moons” by Nansook Hong, I had finally become convinced that I could no longer associate myself with the Unification Church. I had been exploring my unbelief in Moon and his teachings for a year prior to this decision but continued my affiliation with the church. I had hoped to keep my ties to the church strong despite my lack of faith. After reading Hong’s account of her abusive marriage to Rev. Moon’s son and finding out that much of the church’s corruption is rooted in and endorsed by Moon, I knew I had to leave.

It was around that time I started writing a tumblr-blog called “How Well Do You Know Your Moon” in order to process my departure from the faith. It was meant to be a anonymous personal journal, and I didn’t find it necessary to publicize or advertise what I was writing. My entries were mainly about the inconsistencies in Unification theology, but I wrote on other matters such as the forming denominations and splits in the Unification Movement. Within a few weeks, my blog was discovered by church leaders and a witch-hunt ensued. The blog has been up for six years, though we temporarily took it down for a week at one point, and dozens of people have contributed and helped build the blog to be a constant whistle-blower of church corruption and a major resource on UC history. We’ve had several legal threats thrown at us from the Moon family and the church but luckily such threats were empty.

There were many months, if not several years, where my moderation of the blog died down a bit and I took a more hands off approach, blogging only when most convenient or urgent. Recently, though, I have found a renewed sense of passion and have made it a goal to daily report on the injustices of the Unification Church, including fraud, human trafficking, sexual abuse, etc.

My lack of activity with the blog was my way of “getting over” my experience in the church. I was constantly told by members that I was “bitter”, “resentful”, and “negative,” and I half-believed them. I’ve found that even among my friends, there is a hesitance to discuss the church we left behind. Many claimed to have moved on and feel no need to dwell in the past, and I’ve often shut down my own concerns and struggles because I didn’t want to waste my time thinking about the church.  But maybe I am bitter, resentful, and negative, and maybe that’s not that bad of a thing. I’m still on the road to healing and forgiving, but I also feel that an anger towards the viciousness of the UC is not simply just but also necessary to do the work needed to eradicate these injustices.

I can’t continue suppressing what feels like the burden of my identity. I need to embrace it, and not just for my sake, but for those living under the oppression of the church. I carry the weight of my history, yes, but also, to some degree, I carry the weight of the history of all those who have experienced being exploited by the church, as well as the weight of those who are still being abused and exploited by the Moon empire. I have not experienced the level abuse that thousands of other Moonies have, but these people are my people and their stories fuel this passion for justice.

These past few months have been eye-opening, to say the least. I have reconnected with old friends from my childhood in the church and made new friends who share this experience, and I’ve been discovering more and more that there is a need for advocacy and for the church to be exposed fully for what it is. I’ve felt guilty for awhile for not engaging more with theology and Quakerism, because that is a big part of what I had in mind for this year, but I’ve found myself tripping into what I see as an “opening” from God. I’ve accepted what feels like a responsibility but also a fire in my soul.

Though I committed myself to following Jesus at sixteen years old and have long-disconnected myself from much of the Mooniverse (at least socially and organizationally), the Unification Church is still very much a part of my identity. I’ve come to see it, at least for myself, as a gift and calling. When I think of Christ’s “mission statement” in Luke 4:18-19—“the Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim release to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor”—I cannot help but feel that I am where I am supposed to be, or at least going in the right direction.

Soon enough my wordpress here will once again quote George Fox and I will give you an update on my QVS experience, I promise, but I felt a need to share these things and ask for prayer. I don’t think anything like a profession will come out of this, but I do consider the running of my blog as a ministry. I know that this ministry is not simply about a blog and may evolve and look differently throughout my life, but I trust that the Spirit is with me in this work to bring justice to the Unification Church. I’m playing a small part in a big, scary game, but I still believe that such a call needs humility and to be nurtured in the Light. I ask for you to hold me in the Light, as I continue to discern what being prophetic with such a call looks like, and even as I sort out my own identity as an ex-UC member.

Thanks, Friends.

For more information:
The Fall of the House of Moon by Mariah Blake (The New Republic)
Mike Wallace interviews Nansook Hong on 60 Minutes
How Well Do You Know Your Moon

14 thoughts on “My Strange Relationship with the Mooniverse

  1. Hello Hye Sung Francis, I just wanted to send a note of thanks and encouragement for you efforts and journey to know what is true and good. As a first gen Moonie who got out early, I also appreciate HWDYKYM as a way to keep up on what has been happening there. If you haven’t seen it before, I’ve put a few of my thoughts and experiences down in my web site, http://www.conversationswithtodd.org which you may or may not find relevant or interesting to your experience. Please feel free to contact me if you wish! Take care.
    Todd Harvey

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  2. Chris says:

    As what is termed a 1st Gen member called by God to be part of the Unification Movement way back in 1979, yes called by God. Personally I know I have not been able to live up to the high ideals of the teachings of the True Parents, which are far higher than those expected in the Christian faith, which you may disagree with, but that’s not my concern. I know SMM, True Father came as the returning Christ, God, Our Heavenly Parent clearly revealed this to me in spiritual signs, dreams and visions so no matter what others may do be them badly wrong or not, whether they are ‘top leaders’ or just a member and part of the movement, True Father is still the Returning Messiah. Those who remained to follow the risen Jesus over 2,000 years ago also made mistakes, but I am not ‘justifying’ whatever wrongs may have been carried out or or still being done, I am not in the ‘clutches of some evil cult’ not controlled by others be them leaders or other members, I speak my mind and voice my oppinions or concerns openly without fear. Somestimes I think those out and against the UC/movement are speaking about a very differnt organisation to what I have experienced…

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    • I can’t say whether God led you to the UC or not–I am sure God speaks to all sorts of people, Christian or not, and does all sorts of mysterious things that I won’t be able to understand on this side of heaven–that said, the Unification Church has always been run by manipulative and deceitful leaders, including Moon.

      So your experiences are your experiences, and I am thankful you found something meaningful that has blessed you, but it all comes back to the fact that Moon is a narcissistic sociopath. He did not simply allow for corruption but endorsed it and was often the instigator (such as the scams that enslave Japanese members).

      I don’t care about how high your religion’s “standards” are–those standards are meaningless without Love (1 Cor. 13) and actually are often abusing individuals. So..I am speaking out against the same UC you joined and are still a member of… there’s some serious “collective sin” in that organization.

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  3. Alan says:

    I am also a 1st Gen member who joined in the 70s. My city church leader was a strange person and the church members were not the kind of people I would normally be friends with. Still I joined the church because of the revelations it teaches. I love the Bible and these new revelations. Over the years I’ve been fighting against wrong practices and corrupt people within the UC Church. When I see these things it causes pain in my mind & heart but I don’t throw away my beliefs and give up.
    I read HWDYKYM regularly and hope it continues.
    I have an open mind and am a seeker of truth where ever it is.
    The UC has problems but there are many like me who want to make things right

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  4. Greg says:

    Truly I am sorry, for the pain and suffering you have endured. Perhaps it has much to do with the path you’ve chosen which is clearly not supported by the teachings you grew up with.

    I don’t know you, however I know your parents, not well, but know “who they are” and know that they have been dedicated and selflessly giving their best for what they dedicated their whole adult lives for.

    Given the fact that you say you were raised in the UC you really didn’t get the essence, of the true reaching. Instead, as you freely admit, you chose to give in to gossip from another resentful and angry person, who may have had some justification, was also an immature 2nd Gen who probably had way too much on her shoulders, anyway.

    And, given the fact that she and you were “2 Gen” probably didn’t really “understand” too much about what it was you “found yourself” a part of.

    No less than the movement of Jesus, whom you profess to be dedicated to (truly happy for you) there was much mess, corruption, and misunderstanding about him and his ministry as well. The Bible paints a glowing and rosy picture but reality was different.

    The other difference, is that Jesus as the Messiah of the New Testament established a standard of faith “believe in me”. Not so difficult. Who is to say to you, “oh you say you believe, but I don’t believe you” of course it’s a stupid question. If I say “I believe”, then, I do. That’s the test. Problem is some may believe, when it’s convenient, or on Sunday, in church, or…whatever.

    Rev Moon as the LSA The Messiah of the Completed Testament who was the most dedicated follower of Jesus, before he was rejected by every prophetic Christian movement in Korea, was called to make a different foundation. Faith was not enough. You could have faith “til the cows came home” (they never did) but it wasn’t enough. No, Rev Moon spoke about “living your faith” doing the Will of God. Living for the sake of others. And it would be easy to tell who was. No ambiguity. Easy to say I’m “a moonie”, but WHAT ARE YOU DOING in serving others. Or at least trying. That’s where many of us are struggling. Because Rev Moon called us to be no less, than Jesus. We should be the Christ, as Jesus himself commanded. That’s where the truth hurts. It’s one thing to be all excited and choo choo pow, with the UC and ” we’re gonna save the world” but, it’s another to do…something. That my friend is where we all need work. Do not judge too harshly.
    “We see through a glass, darkly, but there will come a time…”

    Blessings to you my friend.

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  5. sydelleeny says:

    You hate the Moonie but you ask for money. As for your brother the offering child. You insult the fact that you parents graciously gave a couple the most precious thing on earth. A child to raise and call their own. You can’t have it both ways in this life. Hate the members then ask for money. I know your parents and one sister.

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    • Never have I said that I hate Moonies. Never did I insult my parents. I don’t think they are perfect, and they have made some very questionable decisions because of ‘providence,’ but that being said… my parents show me the love of God time and time again, as do many Moonies. This sort of comment is not helpful, and I can’t tell if you think this is loving. Also, my brother passed away last week. Make sure to include him in your prayers as he transitions into the Spirit World. Thank you.

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